I have the same pump, and although I haven't hooked it up yet it only has two wires, Red and Black. (just like the top picture in the link you provided). So on my 4 pin computer connector looking straight at the connector side with the angled corners down, the far left pin is Red (12v) and the 2nd pin from the left is Black (Gnd). This is the big old style hard drive power connector. The other two simply aren't used.
Hope that helps, if not take a picture of your pump/wiring. (As for the pump it shouldn't care if the rpm signal is used or not)
Hope that helps, if not take a picture of your pump/wiring. (As for the pump it shouldn't care if the rpm signal is used or not)