I got the front most rack off to the welder today and finally gave in and decided to have them come out and help me do the one over the motor next week.. They're very close to me, so the charge shouldn't be much more than if I take it to them and it will be done and will be right.
Spent a couple of hours today trying to figure out how the hell to wire the 12v heater switch so that it can only have power if the blower motor has power... poured over the wiring diagrams, poked the multimeter into more places than is really decent... Finally figured it out. Turns out (and I'm sure many of you of you are thinking "no sh!t, sherlock"), that the blower motor can only come on if two things are true..
a) the ignition is in the "run" position, and...
b) the blower motor switch is in any position but "off"
Problem is I was probing in the wrong places, not realizing the two connections I need to make are in two different places. Finally tested it with the multimeter's red probe in the blower motor's power connecter and the black probe in the blower motor switch's output connector.
Yeah, I probably didn't explain that well. Suffice to say it makes sense to ME and I'm confident it will work! lol
UPDATE:
Ok, after trying what I said above, I found out it doesn't work so well since the voltage being pulled by the blower motor varies depending on the speed the blower motor switch is set to (duh). Anyway, depending on the position, there would not have been enough volts to power my relay for the heater. So.... after thinking it all over, I decided that my ground for the switch was in the correct place (on the panel position switch - only provides ground when something other than "off" is selected). Then I drew power for the switch from a 12v "run" source (same one I got power for the gauges from). Tested that and it works great. Long story short, my 12v heater switch that will control my relay (which came in the mail yesterday) is in and wired and works great. I'll post a photo later.