Yeah, at such currents you definitely need a BMS that supports external contactors for switching load/charger. Orion, Zeva, Batrium can do that. Batrium definitely can scale up to 20 cells. With Zeva you could use multiple cell monitors, like three 8-cell ones, or two 12-cell ones. Orion also supports wiring multiple units in series for larger strings.
If you're feeling adventurous, you could try Chargery BMS24T. There are very serious concerns over quality of their products though.
If you're feeling adventurous, you could try Chargery BMS24T. There are very serious concerns over quality of their products though.